Is he the one for me?

My name is Ego and his name is Kelvin.We have been dating for 3years now.He is still searching for a job but he has a dry cleaning shop and drives a cool car.He wears the best clothes in town.He is always broke whenever am in town!..Kelvin has never given me 1 Naira since we've been dating.Whenever I catch him counting money,he tells me he needs to resolve some pressing family issues with it.What irritates me most in this whole s**t is the fact that he brings up stories to spend every last kobo I have.
Yeah,I love him a lot but I don't think Love alone is enough.I really want to leave but every time I try to leave,something keeps holding me back.....Am so messed up right now.